ADMIRATION ISSUSES

Everyone disagrees in a relationship, but not everyone knows how to make up. How you handle disagreements determines how healthy the relationship is. Have someone that is matured enough to say "this is our problem, and this is how we are gonna fix it". Cuz being in a relationship with someone who is emotionally unavailable can be like trying to drive a car with no tires. So before you assume, learn the facts! Before you judge, understand why. Before you hurt someone, feel their pain. And before you leave commit to staying. It takes two to fight for a relationship. If you're fighting by yourself, you will end up by yourself. Our imperfections and flaws makes us humans. Finding someone who can and will love you despite all your imperfections is a hard task. Whether it's a current or a past relationship, if you harbor bad feelings toward another person, gratitude will eliminate those feelings. You point the finger at her and say she's being "emotional" as a way of you avoiding the real issue...the issue of you and your actions being inconsiderate of her feelings. If you fix that issue, the rest will resolve itself. Don’t blame her if she is having second thoughts of you. Don’t act as if it is not you who made her feel that way. You tell her you love her but you’re showing otherwise. You tell her that she’s making everything a big deal. You are ignoring her little sighs. She’s sorry that she gets jealous easily. She’s sorry that she is being overprotective. She is sorry for being upset on little things. She has failed relationships before that is why she hates the idea of seeing the same signs again. She knows if it will lead to the same pattern. She loves you but she tries to build her walls again. She wants to protect her heart. She does not like the feeling of being broken again. She does not want to end the relationship but she just wanted to have a break. To find herself. She just wanted some time with herself. If she's upset because you keep doing the same thing over and over, knowing that it bothers her, Is her reaction really the problem? If she's been trying to tell you how she feels and you have consistently ignored her and disregarded her feelings, is her reaction really the problem?